“Gratitude is central to Mr. Trump’s politics. He demands it of his followers, his cabinet and, indeed, of all citizens. He deploys gratitude against his enemies and critics to embarrass and shame. Being grateful is not an option. It is a requirement. Donald Trump has made “thank you” divisive.” — Diana Butler Bass
Like Caesar in his day, this Republican President sees himself as the great benefactor of the country. He believes America is “Great Again” by the simple fact that he is in charge. He gives to those he chooses, when he chooses, for as long as he chooses. For his “generosity” he expects our gratitude, our appreciation, our thanks. When he doesn’t get the appreciation he thinks he deserves, he uses Twitter to attack the “ingrates.” He sees gratitude as transactional. “I give you this” (even if it is just a slogan, or a lie), “and you give me that” (adoration and respect).
This selfish narcissism is a perversion of true gratitude. This is not what the scriptures teach.
First of all, the good things in life (air, water, family, beauty…. life itself) are freely given to us by God. He does not bless us with these things because He is seeking our praise. He does it because He loves us. And He blesses us abundantly even when we do not receive those blessings gratefully.
Secondly, when we feel and express gratitude for our blessings it does not enlarge God. It enlarges us. Gratitude blesses the person who expresses it, not the person whom he or she may be thanking. Gratitude lifts us up, makes us better, brings us joy. Happiness does not make us grateful, gratefulness makes us happy.
And he who receiveth all things with thankfulness shall be made glorious. (Doctrine & Covenants 78:19)
As usual, this President sets precisely the wrong example. A person who wants to be happy should give with love, expecting no return, and receive with joy, expressing gratitude for all gifts.
Sources: “Thank Trump, or You’ll Be Sorry,” by Diana Butler Bass, New York Times, April 22, 2018.
“Gratitude,” Gospel Topics, LDS.org